Friday 31 May 2013

Jewellary and Wedding Functions


Madhuri Dixit glistened at the premier of Jhalak Dikhla Ja in stunning jewellery by Gehna Jewellers. The effervescent actress chose to team her kundan bangles with uncut diamond earrings which were bedecked with blue enamel on yellow gold.

Kiran Datwani on Madhuri Dixit wearing Gehna, “It’s an absolute delight to us that the beautiful Madhuri Dixit has chosen to wear Gehna jewellery for her upcoming show, she is able to carry of any piece with aplomb!

Does Wearing of expensive Jewellary attracts one"s attention during wedding function ?

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Love Marriage Vs Arranged Marriage


What you will do

Love marriage or Arranged Marriage


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love or arranged

Friday 24 May 2013

Marriage and Religion



Marriage

Marriage is the union of two different surnames, in friendship and in love, in order to continue the posterity of the former sages, and to furnish those who shall preside at the sacrifices to heaven and earth, at those in the ancestral temple, and at those at the altars to the spirits of the land and grain.
—Confucius

The anthropological handbook Notes and Queries (1951) defined marriage as "a union between a man and a woman such that children born to the woman are the recognized legitimate offspring of both partners." In recognition of a practice by the Nuer of Sudan allowing women to act as a husband in certain circumstances, Kathleen Gough suggested modifying this to "a woman and one or more other persons."

Marriage and Religion

Hinduism sees marriage as a sacred duty that entails both religious and social obligations. Old Hindu literature in Sanskrit gives many different types of marriages and their categorization ranging from "Gandharva Vivaha" (instant marriage by mutual consent of participants only, without any need for even a single third person as witness) to normal (present day) marriages, to "Rakshasa Vivaha" ("demoniac" marriage, performed by abduction of one participant by the other participant, usually, but not always, with the help of other persons). In India and generally in South Asia, arranged marriages, the spouse's parents or an older family member choose the partner, are still predominant in comparison with so called love marriages until nowadays. The Hindu Widow's Remarriage Act 1856 empowers a Hindu widow to remarry.

Sati, the practice of a widow immolating herself on her husband's funeral pyre, was officially outlawed by India's British rulers in 1829. The last sati incident allegedly occured in Rajasthan in 1987 when 18-year-old Roop Kanwar allegedly committed sati.A court order ruled in 2004 that no such incident had occurred and acquitted all accused.

Wedding Anniversay


Its Your Wedding Anniversary - Celebrate it Differently

Wedding anniversary is a major event,prepare for your wedding anniversary celebration in advance.

1. Start off right. Get up before she does to prepare a quick breakfast.

2. Present her with a bouquet of roses.

3. Relax together and take a break from your regular routine.

4. Don't forget the anniversary gifts. There is a different gift for each year or marriage.

5. Each year, give your loved one a wedding anniversary ring to signify that year of marriage you have just shared together.

6. On your 10th wedding anniversary , have a party. Invite those who are dear to both of
you to attend. In the presence of everyone, renew your wedding vows and exchange a pair of wedding anniversary rings, to commemorate the event.

Saturday 18 May 2013

Don't cry because it's over, smile because it happened.” ― Dr. Seuss


A better marriage is possible! We believe that, with the right information and a mutual commitment to success, even the most unhealthy relationships can be healed. 

They say forgiveness is one of the most difficult things to give, even in married couples. It calls for humility, understanding, acceptance, and even pride. Very often, it's the pride that hinders people to forgive and forget the hurts from the past. Forgiveness has 2 parts - letting go and moving on. It's not enough to say that you have forgiven your partner, but then, deep inside you, you're still holding on and dwelling on the misgivings. Forgiveness could only be completed once you have learned to move on and forget the misgivings. In a marriage counseling session, you will learn why it's difficult to forgive.


Lack of understanding

The aggrieved spouse cannot understand the reason for hurting. It may be petty stuff like forgetting to pick up the clothes from the dry cleaner to the most serious ones, like say, an affair. There are many reasons why people get hurt and it can happen any time. The sad thing is if you cannot understand why your spouse has hurt your feelings because of lack of open communication.


“A great marriage is not when the 'perfect couple' comes together. It is when an imperfect couple learns to enjoy their differences.” 
― Dave Meurer